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French By Heart: An American Family's Adventures in La Belle France | 
 enlarge | Author: Rebecca S. Ramsey
Publisher: Broadway
Category: Book
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Rating:  14 reviews
Sales Rank: 32641
Media: Paperback
Pages: 320
Number Of Items: 1
Shipping Weight (lbs): 0.6
Dimensions (in): 7.8 x 5.2 x 0.8
ISBN: 076792522X
Dewey Decimal Number: 914.404839092273
EAN: 9780767925228
ASIN: 076792522X
Publication Date: April 24, 2007
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Product Description
Can a family of five from deep in the heart of Dixie find happiness smack dab in the middle of France?
French By Heart is the story of an all-American family pulling up stakes and finding a new home in Clermont-Ferrand, a city four hours south of Paris known more for its smoke-spitting factories and car dealerships than for its location in the Auvergne, the lush heartland of France dotted with crumbling castles and sunflower fields. The Ramseys are not jet-setters; they’re a regular family with big-hearted and rambunctious kids. Quickly their lives go from covered-dish suppers to smoky dinner parties with heated polemics, from being surrounded by Southern hospitality to receiving funny looks if the children play in the yard without shoes.
A charming tale with world-class characters, French By Heart reads like letters from your funniest friend. More than just a slice of life in France, it’s a heartwarming account of a family coming of age and learning what “home sweet home” really means.
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 bon livre! February 22, 2008
mamareadssomuch
2 out of 3 found this review helpful
Fast moving memoir about a young family from Greer, South Carolina moving to France as her husband has a job transfer with Michelin. Rebecca Ramsey writes short, descriptive chapters about her family of five's stay in another country that lasted four years and how it felt to 'fit in'. I found it most interesting how the cultures were different yet similar and how life ebbs and flows with this mother of three. I was sad when they left and would love to know that she keeps in touch with her nosy neighbor!
 promising approach but falls short October 25, 2007
mikemac9 (Los Angeles, CA USA)
8 out of 14 found this review helpful
"French By Heart" falls into a less crowded genre of travel books. Two overworked themes are "My Summer House Overseas -- Troubles Making It Liveable", and "Moving Abroad After Marrying A Foreigner -- Adjusting To A Strange Place". This book falls into the category of those spending a few years abroad, and while remaining fundamentally American want to make the most of their experience. There are a few other books in this genre I've read and preferred to this book; I'll mention them at the end of the review.
"French By Heart" starts off very promising. The family is moving to France for the husband's job at Michelin, and they've decided for the full immersion experience. Unlike many ex-pats who cluster together and try make France disappear, Rebecca Ramsey and her husband deliberately decide on a small village with no other Americans. The writing at this point is bright and witty. In fact her young son Ben gets off some of the most amusing lines of the book as he reacts to the news the family is going to France.
The disappointing thing to me is that the book went downhill from there. As with many neophyte writers, Ramsey puts too many adjectives in her sentences as she tries to convey to the reader the wonder around her. It's the verbal equivalent of Baroque art, a little over the top and just as difficult to comprehend. One appreciates skillful writers after encountering writing like this, realizing in retrospect what a delight it is to read someone who captures the experience with a few deftly chosen words instead of sentences so jammed with descriptives they are difficult to read.
Not only was the writing style disappointing, so too the content. A little village in France, someone dying to take part in it. As she writes, "Could we be French too, just for a little while?" The reader might be forgiven for assuming at this point that Ramsey intends to adopt the values, mores, and habits of those in her rural village. Well, she doesn't. I'm not sure after reading the book what it is that Ramsey loves about France. It's not the small shops and village life, since Ramsey shops at the local supermarket and has hardly a mention of local festivals and events. Aren't small villages supposed to be filled with them? The bulk of the book details her interactions with the elderly misanthrope who lives next-door, a lady who criticizes everything about Ramsey and her family. One or two chapters was enough to get the point across.
Missing from the book is much of what I hoped to find in the story of an American family endeavoring to adapt to life in France. We learn little of the school except parents aren't welcome to visit and of a field trip Ramsey helps chaperone. What were her kids learning, how did it differ from the States, how did they get along with the other native kids? Nary a word, just chapter upon chapter about the miserable lady next door. And even though this is her story and not her husbands, what of his job? Surely after 4 years she has some stories to relate how working life is different in France than here. Missing too are stories to bring the small village to life, of the small shops, churches, parks, buildings, and people that presumably led the family to choose to live in a small village.
Interesting to me was how someone can be face-to-face with something, even relate stories about it, and yet fail to see it. Ramsey professes to want to adapt French ways and take part in French culture, yet she somehow fails to see that her children are not making the cut. Several times she reports being chided by the French for the way her children behave. She reports how well-mannered the French children she meets are. Yet the thought never seems to strike her that perhaps childhood behavior is under parental control and not the result of French genes or some vaccination.
My guess is that this work is a diary turned into a book. Keeping a diary isn't a bad thing, its just that it tends to focus on the day-to-day events and not the bigger picture. The day to day events in Ms. Ramsey's life were her run-ins with the crabby neighbor, and I think Ms. Ramsey never stepped back from her diary to reflect on the overall experience when she was turning it into a book. So the book is filled with those day-to-day experiences rather than the story of a family in France. I'd also guess she started the diary when she moved to France, because the best writing of the book by far are the earlier chapters where she's probably reconstructing the decision to move from memory rather than from the pages of a diary.
In the end I'd say this is a decent book. Not unreadable by any means, but not the first one I'd reach for if I wanted to give someone who likes France a good book to read. For expat stories, let me recommend two other titles. These 2 books are by professional writers, and while it is no disrespect to Ramsey since this is her first book, the difference shows. "Paris to the Moon" by Gopnik is a delightful story of a family spending a few years in Paris that really brings the experience alive. "From Here, You Can't See Paris" by Sanders is what this book wants to be; the author spends a year in a French village and captures the local people and town in a way Ramsey's book simply can't. And Sanders immerses himself in the rural life; no supermarkets for him!
 Good Read October 21, 2007
Brent A. Watson
1 out of 2 found this review helpful
FRENCH BY HEART is a great read. The 320 pages went by very quickly. I read it in two sittings. It might help to have a year or two of French under your belt to enjoy this novel more, but it's not extremely important. It's very funny, and slightly nerve wracking at the beginning. I can't fathom picking up my family and moving like Ramsey did. That family has guts. Highly recommend this book.
Charming but not saccharine October 2, 2007
Sacratomato (Northern California)
0 out of 1 found this review helpful
A wonderful book about living with the French, yet it was realistic in that there are always going to bumps in any relationship. I loved the chapter about the family cat, pate and gazing at the moon. I wish Ms Ramsey would live somewhere else (Florence? Tokyo?) and write about the experience.
A quick summer read August 23, 2007
Janice (Arlington, VA)
6 out of 9 found this review helpful
In "French By Heart: An American Family's Adventures in La Belle France" Rebecca Ramsey chronicled her adventure living in France for four years after her husband, Todd was relocated due to work. The couple sold their house in Greer, South Carolina and together with their three children and cat, they were eager for their new home in France. Most of the book focused on Rebecca's attempt to learn French, absorb the culture, and basically adjust to living in France. In addition, her children were unfamiliar with the language and it took a lot of adjusment for them to study at a French school. The family lived across from Madame Mallet, an old French lady who took it upon herself to educate Rebecca and her family on proper French manners.
This was an average read for me. The author focused a lot on her conversations and irritation with Madame Mallet and even though it was somewhat interesting at the beginning of the book, it was a little dull for towards the end. If you are looking for travelogue type read, "French by Heart" would not be the right choice as the author spent little time writing on her travels. Instead, the book dealt primarily with the family adjusting to living in a foreign country.
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